Men Are Attracted to Women Who Are…
Hey Terez,
Below are the questions I’d like you to answer if you’re game…if you could, it would be great if your answers are about 2 paragraphs each…dont’ fall asleep..lol
1. What makes men fall in love and stay in love?
2. What is it about a woman that will keep a man hooked?
3. What are the inner qualities in a woman that spark attraction in men?
4. What should a woman do when a man seems withdrawn or losing interest?
5. What is the worst thing a woman can do to a man?
6. How should a woman respond if she wants a commitment from a man?
Hi Nicole,
These are very excellent questions! Here are my responses:
1. What makes men fall in love and stay in love? My feeling is two people need to have an initial attraction when they first meet. It’s important for the woman to be easy to talk to, yet maintain a little mystery about her.
As the relationship progresses, an essential ingredient to enduring love is the couple’s complete acceptance of each other. Love can’t thrive in a relationship if there is judgement and criticism.
2. What is it about a woman that will keep a man hooked? Women who are comfortable in their own skin are extremely alluring. While they appreciate everyone’s uniqueness, they know who they are, and what works best for them. Despite being in a relationship, they continue to cultivate their own outside friendships, interests, hobbies, etc.
Also, men are intrigued by women who are not afraid to be spontaneous and are open to new experiences. Being inflexible and narrow-minded can be a big turn-off.
3. What are the inner qualities that spark attraction in men? Men are immediately attracted to women who exude confidence, yet are approachable.
Men are also attracted to women who are compassionate, intelligent and possess a generosity of spirit. Also, having a sense of humor and not being afraid to laugh at oneself is extremely sexy!
4.What should a woman do if a man seems withdrawn or losing interest? If a man begins to lose interest in the relationship, the worse mistake a woman can make is to go into panic mode. Instead of frantically calling or texting the guy asking what’s wrong or why hasn’t he called, she should just continue living her life.
This course of action is advised for two main reasons: First, by continuing to live her life, she is sending a clear message to the man that he is not the center of her universe.
Second, I’m a firm believer in the old adage “If you love something, set it free. If it returns to you it was meant to be.” If the man truly wants to be in the relationship, he will return. Then it is up to the woman to decide if she wants to continue the relationship or not. In either case, she is not putting her life on hold.
5. What is the worst thing a woman can do to a man? The worst thing a woman can do to a man is to become hyper-critical of him. This makes many men feel as if they have lost their woman’s respect. When men feel as though they are not respected, they often lose interest in the relationship.
This is not to say that women must put up with behavior they find unacceptable, but criticism should also be tempered with affirmations of love, support and appreciation.
6. How should a woman respond if she wants a commitment from a man? Before becoming deeply involved, a woman should have a conversation with her man and clearly express exactly what her expectations are for the relationship .
If a man’s goals for the relationship matches hers, then great, they on the same page. Although similar conversations needs to occur periodically throughout the relationship to ensure both partner’s expectations remain in harmony.
However, if the man’s desired level of commitment does not match hers, then the woman needs to accept that reality and move on. Far too often women make the mistake of pressuring men into a commitment they are not ready for, or simply don’t want. This path only leads to heart ache and loss of precious time down the road.
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