Fess Up – Does Size Really Matter?
I wanna know what you thinkest…does the size of a man’s penis matter to you? What if you met an awesome guy who’s sweet, sexy, and stumped on you BUT, gulp, he’s a little small in his department…what would you do? I want to know.
I spend at least 1 day a week talking about sex and size with my girlfriends and I told them I’m going to invent the 6 to 8 club..haha. One day we were joking around and I got out a ruler and told them, this is how it HAS to be!!
If you’re a guy, you may find this offensive..but please remember that men have a rating system for women and have been sizing us up for centuries. The reason magazines sell so well is the ever present search that women have to make themselves beautiful for men.
I once read a comment from a guy about what he wanted in a woman and he didn’t hold back. He said, “I am attracted to women with larger breast size” No kiddin’…
Since this double standard is present among alot of men, women don’t need to be shy about their preferences either…like, “I’d prefer a 6 to 8ter..on the double!!
But I digress.
Let’s get back to hear your thoughts about a man’s penis. Don’t ya just love saying that word, “Penis” …it just sits on the tongue like butter on bread…lol
How often do you talk about sex with your girlfriends?
I hope you don’t chat them up to complain about sex but actually enjoy talking about it and how good it makes you feel. My girls and I don’t talk to complain about sex, we don’t need to. We talk about sex, the big ” O” and the penis several times a week and sometimes we get drunk with laughter around the whole subject. No! We’re not laughing at guys, we love em. We just love the topic of sexuality.
If you’re with a man who’s a bit smaller, does he fulfil you? Is he able to please you? One of my girlfriends said, “Hell NO!” She has to have a minimum size requirement and will not make any adjustments in that department. Others are flexible and some love it that their men already have something good to hold on to.
Besides, most women orgasm from clitorial stimulation and not necessarily intercourse but when we talk about sex, we talk about how much we love it when a man rides us hard, it makes for a better, much better experience.
Some men who are smaller are amazing in bed and know how to really please a woman from the inside out. But make no mistake, they are always conscious of the size of their weapon so if you are in love with a man who is a bit smaller, you need to make sure that you give him alot of sexual validation. This is extremely important. When he makes love to you, tell him how great he is and for goodness sakes, do it every day!
When a man doesn’t feel sexually validated, he feels as though he can’t please a woman and it directly affects his self esteem which will affect your relationship somehow. This is similar to a woman feeling awful when a man really hurts her.
So although my girlfriend and many of us might prefer a 6 to 8ter, we are much aware of how we really think as women because we are emotional creatures. If a man rocks a woman’s world emotionally but he’s a bit smaller, more than likely she won’t mind if he’s riding her all day and night.
Your turn. Do share, would love to hear from ya!
Love,
Nicole
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Yes size does matter if your g-spot is way back there. I was never able to reach an orgasm till I found the one who fit me perfectly…..width is not as important as length. That's my personal opinion anyway.
It's sad for the smaller man, I really feel for them. I have been with a smaller man and no joke, he covered himself up walking across the room naked. It only took one hand. Opps I didn't say that.
Yes size does matter. Minimum 5 inches if its wider. I do think the width though is more important than the length.
Yes me and my girlfriends laugh about men and sex. Just last night actually.
I may be the exception here. I am 5'0 and weigh about 106 lbs. I am dating a guy who is absolutely huge. He is about 8" and has a very large shaft as well. When we have sex, I feel like a virgin and it hurts like hell until we get it in and get going. I mean i could literally cry. He is happy as hell but for me, it is pure torture. My ex husband was about the same but had a bit of a smaller shaft so it was not so bad. The last long term relationship I was in he had about a 6" and that was perfect for me. Also, when I am with a very well endowed man like the gentleman that I am dating, I feel like it is hitting something inside of my that it shouldn't be since it is so dang far up there (I also have a small torso). I do not feel like that with someone who is less endowed.
Therefore, size does matter to an extent but only if they are so small that it will not stay in. LOL.. I mean it needs to be big enough to please and to be able to stay in during sex but if it is not HUGE… I am totally fine with that too. I am not too awfully picky as long as it is clean and free of junk and I am protected. I think that is what I think about first to be quite honest with you. I have never been with a man that I have considered too small for me. I have heard some stories though.
I believe that it's all about body compatibility. Length and width are definitely factors along with the overall shape. I once dated a guy that had a penis that had a severe curve, though he was not thick, I felt like he was stabbing my ovary every time we would have sex.
Size definitely matters, as individual needs also matter, some of us prefer deeper penetration, some of us not so much.
I have noticed that guys with smaller penises (shorter or slimmer) do not provide as much satisfaction, as my walls aren't stimulated as much. Stimulation of the G-spot, vaginal walls, labia, and clitoris all combine to create an exception orgasm.
Just my two cents
Would like to add some feelings and thoughts: I remember very well when one of my fingers on my clitoris used to give me thousand orgasms. I know how good it is when we masturbate ourselves while having sex with our partners, too.. I remember when I learnet how to have orgasm with, at least, 30 minutes of oral sex. AMAZING GOOD!
How to have 30 minutes of oral sex or more? Do it simoultaneosly! If he stops, you stop, too. They NEVER stop! Tell him!
All of us have to keep in mind that, if it´s to make 10 minutes of oral sex, is better to not have or not start it at all. Too frustrating! (be with very nice smell ALWAYS!)
Can´t remember having an orgasm in my woumb, though…… only pain….
Size does matter if you want a big man or small one. Pleasure is up to you to find the way to have it with who you are. After all, we women, always can do a plastic surgery to get our vaginas smaller and tight. Isn´t it? I did! It´s wonderful after having babies. Also prevent bladder problems later.
Use mentoleted cream to play with him, at his balls… NEVER use on the shaft first because you´ll ruin your night = he´ll ejaculate TOOO soon! Play around, do massages EVERYWHERE, INCLUDING ON HIS BUT.
Then, sit on him… play with him, slowly… and only when you are tired, work on the shaft. Lick it. Massage it. You are not a plastic doll… Are you? If he had a good shower, is smelling good… what is the problem? We are all cleaned skin. Our limitation is our imagination! He´s clean! He is your man!
After this "treament" and some criativity, HE´LL NEVER left you. BELI EVE me!!!
One day, maybe, you will ask for divorce! They wont!!!
Hi Carla, can you pls translate this in English for our english readers as well?