Fess Up – Does Size Really Matter?
I wanna know what you thinkest…does the size of a man’s penis matter to you? What if you met an awesome guy who’s sweet, sexy, and stumped on you BUT, gulp, he’s a little small in his department…what would you do? I want to know.
I spend at least 1 day a week talking about sex and size with my girlfriends and I told them I’m going to invent the 6 to 8 club..haha. One day we were joking around and I got out a ruler and told them, this is how it HAS to be!!
If you’re a guy, you may find this offensive..but please remember that men have a rating system for women and have been sizing us up for centuries. The reason magazines sell so well is the ever present search that women have to make themselves beautiful for men.
I once read a comment from a guy about what he wanted in a woman and he didn’t hold back. He said, “I am attracted to women with larger breast size” No kiddin’…
Since this double standard is present among alot of men, women don’t need to be shy about their preferences either…like, “I’d prefer a 6 to 8ter..on the double!!
But I digress.
Let’s get back to hear your thoughts about a man’s penis. Don’t ya just love saying that word, “Penis” …it just sits on the tongue like butter on bread…lol
How often do you talk about sex with your girlfriends?
I hope you don’t chat them up to complain about sex but actually enjoy talking about it and how good it makes you feel. My girls and I don’t talk to complain about sex, we don’t need to. We talk about sex, the big ” O” and the penis several times a week and sometimes we get drunk with laughter around the whole subject. No! We’re not laughing at guys, we love em. We just love the topic of sexuality.
If you’re with a man who’s a bit smaller, does he fulfil you? Is he able to please you? One of my girlfriends said, “Hell NO!” She has to have a minimum size requirement and will not make any adjustments in that department. Others are flexible and some love it that their men already have something good to hold on to.
Besides, most women orgasm from clitorial stimulation and not necessarily intercourse but when we talk about sex, we talk about how much we love it when a man rides us hard, it makes for a better, much better experience.
Some men who are smaller are amazing in bed and know how to really please a woman from the inside out. But make no mistake, they are always conscious of the size of their weapon so if you are in love with a man who is a bit smaller, you need to make sure that you give him alot of sexual validation. This is extremely important. When he makes love to you, tell him how great he is and for goodness sakes, do it every day!
When a man doesn’t feel sexually validated, he feels as though he can’t please a woman and it directly affects his self esteem which will affect your relationship somehow. This is similar to a woman feeling awful when a man really hurts her.
So although my girlfriend and many of us might prefer a 6 to 8ter, we are much aware of how we really think as women because we are emotional creatures. If a man rocks a woman’s world emotionally but he’s a bit smaller, more than likely she won’t mind if he’s riding her all day and night.
Your turn. Do share, would love to hear from ya!
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