Build Intense Attraction Texting a Guy

Today's post is written by my good friend and popular blogger Robin in Carolina, visit her blog: http://www.squidoo.com/callingguys.  Robin has helped hundreds with her insights into male/female relationships so check out her article below and follow her tips. 

One of, if not the biggest dating tool you have is right at your fingertips. Your cell phone. Texting is huge. It pays off big time to know techniques that will create and build attraction in men.

Most of us know men don't respond to words. So if that's the case, how can texting be so effective? The answer is simple, sometimes it's in what you don't say or how you don't react that gets them going. It's how you engage their imagination. A man's imagination is your most powerful weapon.

Funny but with a guy we don't really like, we don't even have to think about how to text him, we just instinctively don't put much thought into it. Why should it be different with texting a guy you like? Ever notice how the ones we don't like stick around and the ones we do often vanish? That is often because we don't show them all that much interest and we become a challenge. A guy loves a good challenge does he not?

Ever met a guy that texted you to death. The first "Good Morning Sexy" came and we thought, aw how sweet. Then the afternoon text "Hope you are having a great day". Then he tells you about the cute dog in the park or whatever. The texts keep coming and you are thinking this guy sure is needy. He is killing your attraction.

I have a friend who spent an entire day texting a guy. She was so excited, thought because he was texting her all day, he was into her. Fast forward a week. He never once asked her out and all texting stopped. Why? Because she was too available. It sent the message that this girl had nothing better to do but spend a day of mindless chatter. It also screams desperation. Don't be a perpetual all day texter. He gets bored and it leaves nothing to his imagination. Learning to stimulate a guy's imagination is the key to texting techniques.

When texting a guy you like, always try to be the first one to exit the conversation. Leave him wanting more. Don't fill up his glass all at once. If he texts you, fine, reply, but don't make a day of it. You want him to think you have a busy interesting life. If you are jumping every time the guy you like texts you, he will start to see you as hanging on his every word.

When texting guys it's a good idea to not answer right away. Wait a couple of hours. That way the anticipation builds, then when you do text he feels relief. This creates a powerful trigger to him. In the future when he gets a text from you he will associate it with relief and good feelings. Those good feelings translate into you.

When texting a guy you like don't wake up in the morning and send him a "Good Morning" text or a "Good Night" text. Let him do this first. Let him lead, you follow softly behind. In the beginning if I get one of these I reply with a short sweet "u 2". That's it, nothing more, nothing less. Make him work for it. Men value what they work hardest for. Less is more, always when it comes to men.

Learning the flirty art of texting techniques not only is fun, but builds the attraction level. I am Queen of texting, I can assure you. I have been swooned, and I have swooned in text messaging. Not many realize what a huge dating tool this has become. Get his attention, keep it. http://www.squidoo.com/callingguys

Robin in Carolina is a single woman who works coaching men and women through breakups, online dating and dating in general. She runs a break up boot camp in her inbox as well as assist singles in creating online dating profiles

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