He Kissed Me Last Night
Things are definitely heating up between me and my younger let's call him,
"Mr. Electric Flash"
I wasn't sure about seeing him this weekend and after all of your comments/input,
I decided to give it a go. We met up for a nice walk to the beach in the evening,
sat on a comfy bench near the ocean, looked out at the ocean, chatted, and looked
up at the stars.
Ahhh…
This is our second date and it was absolutely refreshing.
As the night wore on, it got a bit colder so of course he had to warm himself up by pulling me closer to him and gently rubbing my side. That led to us holding hands, then it led to me trying to warm him up by asking him to take one pair of his gloves off so I can rub my hands in his. The poor guy was shivering like crazy and moi had to give him some nice body heat…hand to hand of course..lol..
We sat in silence and it was golden. We talked and it was cool. We watched a passenger train go by which was about 8 feet away from our bench and it blew the wind from the ocean even colder so he pulled me in even closer with his arms and held on, often asking if I was warm.
I wore jeans that had some funky rips in them down my front legs(that's just how they were when they were on the hanger) and my stylish boots and he was curious about the jeans so he looked down on my lap and gently stroked my legs asking about the design in my jeans. Nice excuse to touch my legs huh?
I guess his hands found a nice warm place to land because rubbing my legs (with my jeans on of course!) created alot of heat both internal, external and hormonal. We had more moments of silence when there was no need to say anything because we communicated through the presence of our touch.
I was so relaxed hearing the waves coming in. We saw some sea gulls swimming by. The water was soothing, and I leaned my head on his shoulders while he sat quietly. I closed my eyes and the sound of the water was even more powerful and the loving touch we gave each other was magnified times 10 sitting under the sky with the stars, the water, the silence and the beauty of it all.
It felt beautiful…nothing forced, it was just naturally amazing.
I rested my head on his shoulders, closed my eyes and breathe it all in. There was just a beautiful energy between us. I was so relaxed, I could have fallen asleep. Because our heads were touching shoulder to shoulder, I could feel that a kiss was definitely starting to ask to be let out. I turned my head to the right, looked him in the eyes, and there…he leaned into me, pressed his lips against mine and it was a sweet, soft, gently, powerful kiss that made my gut say "hellloooo"
Once we got started, it was really hard to stop but all good things must be managed..lol
There was something behind his kiss, an electical heat that made me think that perhaps the fire department might show up soon because I felt as though I was being electrocuted by the intensity of the chemistry we shared.
I can still feel it now. And my knees feel like they are going to buckle under me. Ladies, catch me PLEASE!
We ended the night by walking back and he held my hands, wrapped his hands around my waist and we walked in sync all the way back. He just didn't want to let go.
Then it was time to say goodnight so he held his hands out to pull me in for a hug. Once I was snuggled up against him, he pulled me in for a goodnight kiss that made my bones rock! What in the hell is this???
After a few moments, I pulled away, smiled and asked if he he wanted to be my friend. He smiled back and asked me the same question. Now we're not talking about friends with benefits, if you read my last post here, you'll see that I was really unsure about moving forward with him and offered him my friendship instead.
We both smiled and he pulled me in again, held my body against his, and kissed me in such a way that left me saying "Holy Shit!" for more than a few moments after getting in my car to drive home.
I swear on the drive home, my body jolted as if it was touched by a live wire. I'll definitely keep seeing the other men to shift my energy around so that my hormones don't go way out of wack with this dude since the chemistry is that powerful.
We'll have to see how this all pans out…
Before kissing, I told him that I was still unsure about him while we chatted by the ocean and he said ok. I think maybe, he knew that all of my neurons in my brain were going to be firing sooner or later so he patiently waited until we kissed. And it was like sitting on a rocket to the Moon.
So what's next? I'm not sure, he wants to see me again so I'll ease into it…(wink)
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Love,
Nicole
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Dear Nicole,
This guy is definately into you and he is being patient . Sounds like he has loads of self control, and he is very determined You can be sure he knows how his kisses made you feel. It doesn't really matter his age. What matters is are you ready to give more of your time and energy and heart to a younger man? I myself was married to an older man 26 years older. I am now widowed. My sister is married to a man 11 years younger. Although you can't tell the age difference it is there in other ways. She is insecure because of it. With my husband (God rest his soul) he was overly jealous but I was the Queen. My instincts tell me you are a big challenge to him because you are playing it soo cool. I just hope once you fall for him ( and you will if you continue) that you can remain cool and keep your power because that is when he will take over. Hope this helps and Best Wishes on your journey.
Donna Jean
@ Donna, thank you for commenting. Yes, I think he’s patient, he’s been pursuing me for a few months now and it really doesn’t matter what blocks I put up, he still gently moves around them and I did tell him that he was really persistent, he liked hearing that! I haven’t really looked at the idea of giving him my “time” “energy” and “heart” because it often feel he’s apart of my life’s journey and there are lessons to learn along the way so looking at the destination isn’t my goal nor is it hurrying to a destination but being present in this and aware. He said I was really quiet last night and he was right. I was listening in or tuning myself into the experience, into the greater message. I asked him, “What is it you’d like me to say?” and he smiled. Then I went back to being still and enjoying the magnetic presence between us.
Love,
Nicole
That magnetic energy is so very very exciting. Yes I think it's all about the journey and opening yourself up to new adventures, souls etc….
You know all about pacing I am sure. It's up to you of course to pace him. I think I would relish in the slow simmer of it all, and avoid the rapid boil.
Those chemicals can really pull us. So hard to resist. Time away from him does help the chemicals to die down a bit and keeps the pace on that simmer degree.
I say explore him Nicole, you only live once, I think….You of all people know the fundamentals to connecting with and buiding attraction with the opposite sex.
Love,
Robin
Yes, my dear Robin, “exploring” him sounds like a great idea, you know how long explorations can take..haha, so we’ll scale it down into a slow simmer…
patiance and i always say that if he is worth it he will wait till you make up your mind, i love his composure . he will truly wait for you
@ Frans, I love his composure too…it is quite sexy. There is nothing about it so far that grabs or forces…but it is gentle and persistent…