Should I Date a Man I’m Not Attracted to?

Hello there,

First of all, thank you for taking the time to read this.

I'm going to go straight to the point. My friend is very attracted to me, and he's a sweet and wonderful guy. HOWEVER, I am not attracted to him physically or emotionally. Should I consider dating him? Will the attraction come later or am I setting him and myself up for heartbreak?

I hope to hear from you soon,
Bianca

Hi Bianca,

Thanks for asking the question.

The answer to your question is "no". Physical and Emotional attraction must be present because it opens the gate to falling in love and it also provides the foundation that creates chemistry/compatiblity in the long run.

Now, people can have a physical/emotional connection BUT it doesn't mean they are compatible…

However, the physical/emotional attraction is the intelligence within you, it is the biological spark that communicates on a deeper level inside.

Many times women ignore this intelligence because the guy is "real nice"…but you will find that if he tries to kiss you or get intimate, your body will react and more than likely pull away since attraction isn't present.

If you have that kind of attraction towards a man, it is hard for you to resist him…he's often on your mind, you actually fantasize about him kissing you/making love to you…and the fact that it is difficult for you to resist provides the key to building MORE attraction which is an ebb and flow of resistance.

When women describe a man as "sweet" and "wonderful" ..it just means there is no attraction present…notice you didn't say he's HOT.

So pay attention to your feelings…because it's trying to tell you something:)

Nicole

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