Ever Heard of Matthew Hussey?  He's only one of THE most popular male dating coaches for women who's been so much in the meda, it's like he's been played 24/7.  In this video he talks about how to create a connection with a man. Check out this video he did with blog founder Christelyn D. Karazin.  

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Ever Heard of Matthew Hussey?  He's only one of THE most popular male dating coaches for women who's been so much in the meda, it's like he's been played 24/7.  Check out this video he did with blog founder  Christelyn D. Karazin.  

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Check out Matthew's Top Guide Below:)

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It…and You Can Too!

by Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this: 

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me?  After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house?  The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner?  Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door? 

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men.  I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.  What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply clicking here.

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.

1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”

2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.

If you liked these insights, there are more available in Bob Grant’s wonderful e-book called, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave.” Bob Grant, L.P.C., has taken his 17 years of private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach and condensed only the best information into a mouth-watering, powerful handbook on what men find themselves powerless to resist in a woman. You can have this information simply by clicking here. 

You’re on a third date with a guy.

He looks you in the eyes, lovingly. 

He grabs your hand.

He offers up a nervous smile. 

And he says, in a romantic whisper…

“You know, I’ve been thinking about you a lot since we first met last Tuesday. And I feel we’ve got some amazing chemistry that I don’t get very often on my other coffee dates. For that reason, I think that you could be the one for me. So… are you dating anybody else right now? Are you serious about marriage and having kids? Are you interested in spending the holidays with my family? Where is this relationship going?”

Check, please!

These are the kind of words you want to hear eventually from a guy you’ve learned to care about; they are not what you want to hear from a total stranger who doesn’t know anything about you.

In fact, it’s kind of weird for a guy to “just know” that he wants a commitment with you so soon. Right? Sure, you want to be treated like a princess… but only by a man who really understands you and sees you for who you are inside.

He’s so positive about you that it makes you question his judgment – and lessens your attraction to him instantly.

Click here to learn more: Why Men Disappear and How to Keep Him Interested

If it’s obvious that it’s in bad form for a guy to want to discuss a future with you soon after you’ve met, then why isn’t it obvious that the same rule applies to you as well?

Trying to figure out where a relationship is going too soon is a surefire way to scare a man away, just like you get scared off by those too-eager guys.

C’mon…we’ve all been there before.

You meet a “great guy”. 

You “want to know where things are going”…

…so that you “don’t waste your time”

…on a man “who may not want to commit” 

…and has the “potential to hurt you” just like your last boyfriend.

And because of all of these fears, you immediately start tensing up, looking for red flags, trying to get clarity, making sure the other shoe doesn’t drop.

Suddenly, the excitement and passion of new love is replaced by…

- “How come your profile is still up?”

- “I haven’t heard from you all day, is everything okay?”

- “When do you see yourself having kids?”

- “Do you have a good relationship with your exes? Why did you break up?”

- “Let’s talk about ‘us’…”

Your pure intention is to protect yourself from getting hurt.

But what HE sees is an interrogation about his character and your future – from a woman that he’s known for less than a month. 

Very quickly, your relationship turns from fun and playful to fearful and intense. 

And why?

Because you expect him to know after a few weeks that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and that he’s never going to leave you.

Can you see how unfair that is? Can you see how unrealistic that is?

Commitment is serious, and it’s impossible for a reasonable man with any integrity or life experience to definitively tell you that he’ll love you forever. 

That’s why he’s dating you – to figure out over the next few years whether you’re “the one” before he proposes. Asking – or expecting – your man to make a promise that he can’t keep is essentially asking him to do one of two things:

1) Lie to you – “Yes, I love you and will never even think of another woman!”

2) Leave – because the pressure is too great and it’s not worth his time to put up with someone who makes such unreasonable demands.

This is not to say that you shouldn’t expect a ring after 2+ years. 

In fact, you should definitely walk away if your relationship isn’t growing and escalating and providing you with the security you desire.

All I’m saying is that if you want to make it to 2+ years, you have to allow him to fall in love with you organically. 

You can’t protect yourself from ever being hurt by asking for answers too early.

Just as you would run from the man who wants to marry you right away, we flee from women who want to know the future before we even know it.

So just sit back, enjoy the ride, and realize that the right man will WANT to commit to you by his own volition. You don’t have to DO anything to make it happen.

To learn how to play it cool and get the man you desire to fall for you, check out my eBook, “Why He Disappeared”, which tells you how men think and how you can connect with us during those tenuous first few weeks together.

Click here to learn more: Why He Disappeared and How to Keep Men Interested in You

Within minutes, you’ll have more power and control over your own destiny, and you’ll never again make the same mistakes that push men away.

Click here to erase a lifetime of pain and frustration.

If you're like most women you've probably been
lied to by a man . . .

To be honest with you I've been lied to many many times myself so I can pretty much guarantee it.

 
The simple fact is, men
lie to women all the time . . . 
 
About little things . ..
 
About big things . . .
 
About things that don't seem to matter at all . . . 
 
And a lot of women want to know WHY?
 
WHY can't he just tell me the truth?
 
My friend Michael Fiore (he's a nationally
known relationship expert who's helped thousands
of women understand men and who even appeared on
Rachael Ray) says there's actually THREE reasons
that men lie to women (and two of them
are actually pretty innocent . . . here's the first
one that tends to SHOCK a lot of women.)
 
Michael says that men lie to women because men are
SCARED of women.
 
Not physically (not usually,
though occasionally you hear
about a woman going all "Bobbet" on her 
man.)
 
Nope, Michael says men are scared of women's EMOTIONS.
 
See, it might sound weird, but emotions
are actually harder for guys to deal with
and to recover from for guys
than they are for women.
 
According to Dr. John Gottman at the
University of Washington (right
here in Seattle) women can both
enter and recover from extreme
emotional states a LOT faster
and easier than guys can.
 
If you think about it, it makes sense.
 
We've all seen a woman burst into tears
one moment only to be totally fine 5 minutes
later.
 
But when it comes to emotions, guys are
a lot more "fragile."
 
Gottman says it's because of evolution.

Guys were evolved to be single taskers.
 
To push everything out of their mind
except the one thing they're hunting.
 
And because of that we're slower to
get into an emotional state and MUCH
slower to get back out of it once we get
there.
 
I like to think of it like swimming.
 
Getting "emotional" for women is a lot like jumping
off a dock into a lake.
 
You get wet, sure. But the dock is right there and just a few
seconds later you're safe and dry. . . 
 
But for guys, "getting emotional" is like getting dropped
in the middle of the ocean . . .
 
Bobbing in the water.
 
Surrounded by sharks. 
 
With land nowhere in site.
 
What does this have to do with LYING?
 
Everything.
 
From a very young age, guys
learn that if we tell you the truth you
could FREAK OUT on us. . . 
 
FLOOD us them with scary emotions . . .
 
And push them out in the ocean where it'll
take them hours to recover.
 
Of course there's other reasons that
guys lie too . ..
 
And other mysteries of men that the "guys"
in your life simply never tell you about . . .

If you want to truly understand men, you should
drop whatever you're doing and go watch this amazing new
video Michael Fiore has just released . . .

It gives you "X Ray Vision" into the minds of men . . .

And tells you all about an astonishing (and affordable)
new program Michael's created to answer every
question you've ever had about men and the way they think . . .

A program that tells you . . .
 

• What he really thinks of you (and why men
  are so BAD at showing a woman that he loves her.)
   
• Why he looks at other women, what it MEANS when
  he looks at another woman and what really goes through
  his head when he sees a hot girl walking down the street . . .
   
• Why men cheat . . . and how to drain your man's desire
  to cheat on you just by saying a few simple words.
   
• The dirty truth about a man's sexual mind . . .why your
  man WANTS to be objectified and how to give him
  sexual thrills that will have him addicted to you.
   
  And MUCH more . . .
   
  All based off thousands of secret survey responses 
  from real men . . . 
   
  Watch the Video Here Now 

  I don't know how long Michael is going to leave this
  video up, but if you want to UNDERSTAND men
  you need to watch it right now while you can.

Your Friend,

Nicole


P.S. If you're like me (or thousands of other women) 
you'll find yourself nodding along with this video, shocked and 
thankful that a guy like Michael is finally telling you
the TRUTH . . .

You ever start dating a guy and immediately, you’re walking on eggshells?

Dating at times can be a riddle for a lot of women. At times women feel like they are doing all the right things to get the guy of their dreams to notice them. It might even go to the stage when they go on a date with a guy, and things may seem like they are going well. When the guy suddenly stops calling, most do not understand what could have possibly gone wrong. They wonder what they may have done to push him away and they try to find the answer and find that it is just something that they do not understand.

It is a pain to have to think of all the possibilities that could have made him not want to be with you. There are so many possibilities, and having to pinpoint the right answer becomes impossible. A little frustration may even set it, because maybe you found the guy that you really like, only to have him behave just like all the other guys.

Guys come in different packages and different sizes, and the way that they deal with women is totally different. Some guys are really easier to hang out with and strike a conversation with and you know exactly where you stand with them. Other guys are just a mystery, they are hard to read and you just never know what they are thinking.

In the midst of your confusion and frustration, there is some dating advice for women that you can use to get that guy interested in you.

For starters you need to go to places where you give yourself the best chance to meet the right guy. There are plenty of places where you can meet a guy that you like. Friends and family can hook you up with someone nice because they understand you and understand the kind of guy that you like. You also need to hang out in places where the chances of meeting the kind of guy that you are likely to be able to date will be.

The signals that you are sending to the guys should show that you want to be approached. Not in a desperate kind of way, but in a way that shows that you are approachable and be able to have the opportunity to get to know him better.

While you are trying to understand why a guy is not giving you the attention that you are looking for, keep reminding yourself that he is a guy. Women are always under the pressure of trying hard to impress guys, so much so that it becomes a problem for them. The best way to attract men is to flirt with them the way they need to be flirted with, and that will get them excited and chasing after you. How to attract men is something that you will learn along the way.

The process of guys chasing after women is something that guys should find exciting as this will make them come back for more. Make it a bit of a challenge, and do not just hand yourself over just because the guy likes you, or because you want him to like you more.

Guys do not like girls that seem too serious. Try and be carefree, fun and approachable, and you will be able to land the guy that you want.

This dating advice for women will help you land the guy that you are looking to have.

Attract Men And Make Them Find You Irresistible

Have you ever been on a date that flopped or connected with someone online and it was like a nightmare? Well, according to a new site, even if your date flopped, you will get paid by your date! 

When I came across this, it just sounded too good to be true, but I did a little research and is actually real. For some women, it might feel like they stuck gold. Imagine going out on a fabulous first date and not only having your date pay for the date, but pay you FOR your time.

Hallelujah!! ? or Sleazy?

Now this concept might come across as prostitution for some, but sex is not offered or expected on the date. The site has taken off and so many people are raving about this site but there are many who think it's just old fashion prostitution or an escort service.

The site has taken off, even in the face of intial criticisms by "relationship experts" – here's what the owner had to say about it:

" If you can’t tell the difference between an online dating website and “an escort service”, then perhaps you should stop calling yourself a Relationship Expert. Honestly, I expect every PhD or “Dr.” to be able to tell the difference between black or white."

How it works is: The site is divided into Generous Users ( most often men who want to pay you for you time on a real public date) and Attractive Users ( most often women who want to go out, have fun, and get paid for their time). You sign up on the site for free, and once your free membership is approved, you get to start searching for people you want to date and make them an offer. Wait, they are also searching for you too! You are making them an offer to get paid for your time and in doing so, the site claims it's a total win win. No more going out with cheapskates or having someone you thought was totally into you ask for you to go dutch. No way!

 You get to have a REAL date and you can do so without any expectations only that you are paid for your time. Here's an exert from the site itself: "a platform where generous and attractive singles can negotiate and agree on a price for a first date."

No more people sending you endless text messages or creepy online profiles wasting your time. I know how frustrated you may feel when you get totally excited about someone only to find out that they are wasting your time. They talk about meeting or even make promises to meet you but nothing ever comes of it. Boring!

Now you can take matters into your own hands because you're not sitting around waiting to "make a date" but it is actually happening like it is SUPPOSED to happen. And you get to have fun with this because this is what dating is all about, not sitting at home waiting for a text/phone call that isn't coming.

This gets even better, they have a guarantee. If you don't get to go out on at least 5 actual dates, you get credits for this: "we will give you an addition 1000 credits at no additional cost to you to continue your search. We are the only website where you will get to date beautiful people, and we guarantee it!"

As with all online dating, use your smarts. I would not recommend talking about or guaranteeing sex on the date nor having someone elude to meeting up or hooking up on the first date with the expectation that sex will be apart of the date.

See what the fuss is all about. If you want to try something new, you might as well get paid for it.

Get paid to go out on your date and have fun!